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Sadness is a natural part of life, but when it's accompanied by feelings of worthlessness, apathy, or hopelessness, it's an indication that something more serious is going on that needs to be attended to and cared for by professionals.

These emotions could be symptoms of depression, a prevalent mood illness that can be brought on by traumatic experiences, acquired behaviors, unfavorable thought patterns, biochemistry, or a mix of all of the above.

Depression has an impact on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, which can lead to a variety of emotional and physical issues. It may make you feel down, alienated, or apathetic, which has an adverse influence on not only you but also on your relationships.

Even more extreme emotions of emptiness, unjustified guilt, concern with death, suicidal thoughts, and unhealthy dependence on others may be brought on by depression. You can feel more agitated and anxious, making you feel uneasy or unsafe in circumstances that previously seemed normal or even fun. Additionally, you might begin to consider suicide. 

At Gem State Wellness, we understand that seeking professional help is essential for managing depression and grief. Our experienced counselors provide high-quality counseling services in various locations throughout Idaho, including Boise, Nampa, and Meridian

In addition to individual counseling, we also offer specialized services such as Boise children's counseling. We understand the unique needs of children and provide a safe and supportive environment for their emotional well-being.


  • lethargy, lack of energy and drive

  • feelings of despair, sense of worthlessness

  • hypersomnolence

  • insomnia

  • weight loss or gain, appetite changes

  • irrational behavior, frustration, irritation

  • difficulty with decision making, concentration, thinking clearly

  • self-harming or self-destructive activities

Lethargy, lack of energy and drive

In the depths of depression, lethargy and a profound lack of energy can become constant companions, draining the motivation and drive that once fueled your life. Every task, no matter how simple, may feel like an insurmountable challenge. The weight of fatigue settles upon your body, making even the most mundane activities exhausting. It can feel as if you are trapped in a fog, where every step requires an immense effort. This overwhelming sense of physical and mental lethargy further reinforces the cycle of depression, as it becomes increasingly difficult to engage in activities that once brought joy and fulfillment. However, it's important to remember that lethargy and lack of energy are symptoms of depression, not personal shortcomings. With compassionate support and proper treatment, you can begin to lift the heavy veil of fatigue, rediscover your energy, and reclaim your motivation to embrace life once more.

Feelings of despair, sense of worthlessness

Feelings of despair and a pervasive sense of worthlessness can envelop every aspect of your being. The weight of sadness becomes suffocating, leaving you with a profound sense of hopelessness and a distorted view of your own self-worth. Negative thoughts and self-criticism take hold, convincing you that you are a burden to others and that your contributions are meaningless. These feelings can intensify the grip of depression, further eroding your self-esteem and diminishing any sense of purpose or value in your life. It is crucial to recognize that these emotions are a manifestation of the illness, and they do not reflect your true worth as a person


Hypersomnolence, or excessive sleepiness, is a common symptom experienced by individuals grappling with depression. Despite getting more than enough sleep, a pervasive feeling of fatigue persists, leading to an irresistible urge to sleep throughout the day. It can be a vicious cycle, as the more one sleeps, the more lethargic and disconnected they may feel from the world. This excessive sleep can become an escape from the pain and emotional turmoil associated with depression. However, it only serves to further isolate individuals from daily activities, social interactions, and responsibilities, reinforcing feelings of disengagement and sadness. Understanding hypersomnolence as a symptom of depression is crucial, as it signifies the need for comprehensive treatment that addresses both the underlying depressive disorder and the associated sleep disturbances. Through therapy, medication, and lifestyle adjustments, individuals can work towards reestablishing a healthier sleep pattern and reclaiming their energy and engagement with life.


Insomnia, a persistent difficulty in falling asleep or staying asleep, often accompanies depression and exacerbates the emotional burden already experienced. Nights become an ongoing battle as racing thoughts, restlessness, and an overwhelming sense of sadness prevent restful sleep. The lack of restorative rest amplifies the feelings of fatigue and drains the energy needed to face each day. Insomnia and depression create a vicious cycle, as the sleep deprivation further contributes to negative mood, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. It is crucial to address insomnia as a significant component of depression treatment, as improving sleep can have a positive impact on overall well-being. With the guidance of therapy and, if necessary, appropriate medication, individuals can develop strategies to promote better sleep hygiene, manage racing thoughts, and cultivate relaxation techniques to reclaim restful nights and restore vitality to their daily lives.

Weigh loss or gain, appetite changes

Weight loss or gain, along with significant changes in appetite, are common manifestations of depression. For some individuals, the emotional turmoil and lack of interest in pleasurable activities can lead to a decrease in appetite, resulting in unintended weight loss. Food loses its appeal, and meals become mere obligations rather than sources of nourishment and enjoyment. On the other hand, depression can also trigger an increase in appetite, leading to weight gain. The intense cravings and emotional eating patterns provide temporary comfort but often contribute to feelings of guilt and shame. These fluctuations in appetite and weight can further fuel the cycle of depression, as body image concerns and self-esteem are affected. Addressing these changes in appetite and weight within the context of depression treatment is essential. By working with a healthcare professional, individuals can explore strategies to maintain a balanced approach to eating, establish healthier relationships with food, and ultimately support their overall well-being on the path to recovery.

Irrational behavior, frustration, irritation

Irrational behavior, frustration, and irritability often accompany depression, contributing to the complex emotional landscape individuals navigate. The overwhelming weight of sadness and despair can manifest in unpredictable outbursts, intense frustration over minor setbacks, and a heightened sensitivity to everyday stressors. Tasks that were once manageable become overwhelming, leading to a sense of helplessness and irritability towards oneself and others. The internal turmoil may cause individuals to lash out or withdraw from social interactions, further exacerbating feelings of isolation. It is important to recognize that these irrational behaviors and emotional responses are symptoms of depression and not indicative of personal flaws. Through therapy, individuals can gain insight into these emotional patterns, develop coping strategies, and cultivate healthier ways to manage frustration and irritation. By addressing these aspects of depression, individuals can regain a sense of emotional stability, improve relationships, and navigate life's challenges with greater resilience and understanding.

Difficulty with decision making, concentration, thinking clearly

Difficulty with decision making, concentration, and thinking clearly is a common cognitive challenge faced by individuals battling depression. The cloud of sadness and mental fatigue can make even the simplest decisions feel overwhelming and daunting. Concentration becomes a struggle as thoughts become scattered and elusive, hindering the ability to focus on tasks or engage in conversations. This cognitive fog affects both short-term and long-term memory, making it difficult to retain information or recall details. Additionally, the negative cognitive biases associated with depression further impede clear thinking, as self-doubt and pessimism cloud judgment. Recognizing these cognitive symptoms as part of the depression is crucial, as it underscores the importance of comprehensive treatment that addresses both the emotional and cognitive aspects. Through therapy and potentially medication, individuals can develop coping strategies, improve cognitive functioning, and regain the ability to make decisions and think clearly, ultimately supporting their overall well-being and quality of life.

Self-harming or self-destructive activities

Self-harming or self-destructive activities often emerge as distressing coping mechanisms in the context of depression. When overwhelmed by feelings of hopelessness, despair, and an intense desire to escape emotional pain, individuals may turn to self-harm as a temporary outlet. These behaviors, which can include cutting, burning, or engaging in risky behaviors, provide a distorted sense of control or emotional release. However, they are not sustainable or effective solutions and can lead to further physical and emotional harm. It is crucial to understand that self-harming activities are manifestations of deep emotional pain and a cry for help. Seeking professional assistance is essential in order to address the underlying causes of depression, develop healthier coping strategies, and create a supportive environment that promotes healing and recovery. With the right support and treatment, individuals can find healthier ways to manage their emotional pain and regain control over their lives.


Depression has physical manifestations as well as mental ones. Insomnia or hypersomnia (sleeping excessively) can be a physical symptom of depression, as can memory issues, an elevated risk of heart attack, changes in weight, constricted blood vessels, overall tiredness, and a compromised immune system. In fact, there is growing evidence from studies that suggests a self-reinforcing feedback loop exists between gut health, immunological health, and mental health. Our physical and emotional selves are mutually reinforcing and interacting.

We are more likely to eat healthily, exercise regularly, be more productive, and engage in pleasant interactions with people that lead to new friendships and relationships when we are at our best. On the other hand, depression can make it difficult for us to find the motivation to achieve much of anything. Exercise, work, and social obligations frequently fall by the wayside. The worse we feel, the less attention we give ourselves. Additionally, the worse we feel, the less attention we give ourselves. Without the assistance and support of a professional, this develops into a vicious cycle that is challenging to escape.


Even worse, sadness erodes our sense of worth and self-esteem as a result. Therefore, counseling can enable you to uncover underlying patterns and adopt ways to restore a sense of joy, calm, and competence to your life, whether you are just going through a difficult moment or you are deeply immersed in depression.

Our approaches are supported by science and have been shown in study to be successful in treating depression, anxiety, and a wide range of other mental health conditions. Without the assistance and support of a professional, this develops into a vicious cycle that is challenging to escape. Together, we collaboratively uncover underlying causes, identify personal strengths, and create a tailored treatment plan that suits your unique circumstances. With our guidance and support, you can learn to respond to your emotions and circumstances in a new way, ultimately discovering hope and healing. It's time to embrace a brighter future where depression no longer defines your life.

If you're in need of support, Gem State Wellness is here for you. We offer counseling in Boise, counseling in Nampa, counseling in Meridian, providing evidence-based approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) that have proven effective in treating depression, anxiety, and a range of mental health conditions. If you're ready to take the first step towards healing and regaining control of your life, contact us today. Mat Schubert, a compassionate Boise therapist specialized in children's counseling is dedicated to help you find hope and happiness.

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